SS v. MS, 2022 NY Slip Op 51090 - NY: Family Court 2022:
"In this custody and visitation proceeding brought under Article 6 of
the Family Court Act, respondent M.S. ("Respondent") filed this motion
pursuant to Domestic Relations Law ("DRL") 245, and articles 765, and
770 of the Judiciary Law seeking (1) a finding of contempt against
Petitioner, (2) an Order of Commitment, (3) an award of sole legal and
physical custody of the children to Respondent, (4) that Petitioner's
parenting time be limited to supervised visitation only, and for such
other and further relief as the court deems just and proper. This file
was transferred to the undersigned by Referee Gail A. Adams due to the
nature of the motion. Following review of the motion papers and exhibits
cited above, procedural history, and court-maintained audio recordings
of the proceedings, the motion is granted in part.
Background
Petitioner and Respondent are the parents of four children, born XX
XX, 2013, XX XX, 2015, XX XX, 2017, and XX XX, 2021 (the "children").
Beginning on December 20, 2021, the parties have engaged in extensive
litigation in this court and have filed multiple petitions including
family offenses, petitions for enforcement of court orders, and
petitions for custody. On December 20, 2021, Respondent filed a family
offense petition against Petitioner (Docket no. O-06460-21) and a
petition for custody of the children (Docket nos. V-06463-22,
V-06464-22, V-06465-22, V-06466-22). On the same date, a full stay away
temporary order of protection was issued in favor of Respondent and the
children and against Petitioner. After an appearance before the court,
the stay away provisions of the temporary order of protection were
removed on December 22, 2022 and the court entered a temporary order of
visitation that set a schedule for Petitioner to have parenting time
with the children. The temporary order of visitation also orders that
"[n]either parent is to remove the child[ren] from the New York City
area during the pendency of this proceeding without prior approval of
the court." Following another appearance before the court on January 13,
2022, the children were removed from the temporary order of protection
and the temporary order of visitation was also continued.
On January 19, 2022, Petitioner filed a custody petition to enforce
the temporary order of visitation and for sanctions against Respondent
(Docket nos. V-06463-21/22A, V-06464-21/22A, V-06465-21/22A,
V-06466-21/22A). Petitioner filed an amended petition to enforce the
temporary order of visitation on March 21, 2022, in which she alleges
that Respondent "has taken the children out of the New York City area to
live on Long Island without notifying courts. He has since blocked me
and refused to drop off our child [R.]. Our children also aren't in
school." On March 22, 2022, Petitioner filed a motion, by order to show
cause, to punish Respondent for contempt for allegedly withholding the
children in Long Island and refusing to give Petitioner access to them.
This matter was then referred to the undersigned. On March 29, 2022, at
an appearance before this court, Respondent withdrew his custody
petition and the motion for contempt was dismissed as moot.
On March 30, 2022, Petitioner filed the instant a petition seeking
custody of the children (Docket nos. V-02267-22, V-02268-22, V-02269-22,
V-02270-22) and filed a family offense petition against Respondent
(Docket no. O-02261-22). On the same date, a full stay away order of
protection was issued in favor of Petitioner and against Respondent. The
temporary order of protection was continued on May 3, 2022.
On May 16, 2022, an on-the-record conference was held before Referee
Brenes. At the appearance, Petitioner requested that any parenting time
with Respondent be supervised. The attorney for the child opposed the
request for supervised visits, noting that there were no safety concerns
regarding Respondent's care of the children and the children expressed
that they love their father and want to spend time with him. Referee
Brenes denied the request, stating that there were no grounds for
supervised visits, and ordered that beginning May 20, 2022, Respondent
would have weekly parenting time with the children every Friday at 5:00
p.m. until Sunday at 6:00 p.m., with pickup to occur curbside at
Petitioner's home.[1]
An order memorializing this direction was issued on May 16, 2022 (S.S.
affidavit in support, exhibit A), but was not emailed to the parties
until May 23, 2022, due to an administrative error. The written order
states, in pertinent part, "[c]ommencing Friday, May 20, 2022, and every
week thereafter, the father [] may have visits with the children ...
commencing at 5pm until Sunday at 6pm."
On May 20, 2022, Respondent arrived at Petitioner's residence to pick
up the children, but Petitioner refused to produce the children (id. ¶ 4). The police arrived and Respondent was arrested for violating the outstanding temporary order of protection (id.).
On May 21, 2022, a criminal court temporary order of protection was
issued in favor of Petitioner and against Respondent (S.S. affidavit in
opp ¶ 6). The criminal court order contains orders that Respondent stay
away from and refrain from all communication with Petitioner, except for
communications or access permitted by a subsequent order issued by a
family or supreme court in a custody, visitation or child abuse or
neglect proceeding (Hazelwood affirmation in opp, exhibit A).
Petitioner also did not produce the children for the weekends of May
27, 2022, June 3, 2022, or June 9, 2022. She attests that she did not
produce the children for parenting time on May 20, 2022 because she did
not feel comfortable sending the children for parenting time without a
copy of the court's order, and did not produce the children on the
subsequent dates because of the criminal court order of protection (S.S.
affidavit in support at 13).
Another conference was held with Referee Brenes on June 13, 2022. At
the conference, Referee Brenes reiterated that Respondent was to have
parenting time with the children and issued a second visitation order
reflecting the same parenting time schedule set forth in the prior
order. On June 14, 2022, there was another appearance before Referee
Brenes for the purpose of assigning counsel to Petitioner. On June 17,
2022, Respondent picked up the children and exercised parenting time as
directed in the order (S.S. affidavit in support ¶ 7). That weekend,
Respondent took the children shopping and took the three older children
to a salon, where they had their hair washed and cut (id.).
On June 24, 2022, June 25, 2022, and the weekends July 1, 2022 and
July 8, 2022, Petitioner again refused to produce the children for
parenting time with Respondent (S.S. affidavit in support ¶ 9).[2]
Petitioner argues that she did not send the children for parenting time
on these dates for a variety of reasons. First, she attests that the
children were very upset when they returned home from the June 17, 2022
visit with Respondent, and in particular M was upset that her hair was
cut during the visit with Respondent (S.S. affidavit in support at 13).
She offers no explanation regarding the June 24, 2022 visit. She attests
that when she began preparing the children for the July 1, 2022 visit,
the children reported that they did not want to visit with Respondent
and Ivan had an anxiety attack when informed of the visit (S.S.
affidavit in opposition ¶ 5). She then called ACS who purportedly stated
she did not have to send the children to the visit if they did not want
to go (id.). Petitioner further states that she did not send the
children for parenting time with Respondent because she was waiting for
the children to be interviewed by their attorney and, for the weekend
of July 8, 2022, because the children wanted to attend their cousin's
birthday party (id. ¶¶ 6-9).
The instant motion was filed, by order to show cause, on July 14,
2022 and the motion was assigned to the undersigned. Petitioner reports
that she has consistently sent the children for parenting time with the
Respondent since July 15, 2022, and Respondent does not contradict this
representation (S.S. affidavit in opposition ¶ 11).
Discussion
Respondent's moves for an order of contempt for Petitioner's failure
to produce the children for court-ordered parenting time for eight
weekends between May 20, 2022 and July 10, 2022. He seeks relief
pursuant to Domestic Relations Law ("DRL") 245, and articles 765, and
770 of the Judiciary Law for (1) a finding of contempt against
Petitioner, (2) an Order of Commitment, (3) an award of sole legal and
physical custody of the children to Respondent, (4) that Petitioner's
parenting time be limited to supervised visitation only, and (5) for
such other and further relief as the court deems just and proper.
Civil contempt is defined as "disobedience to a lawful mandate of the
court" which prejudices the rights or remedies of another party to the
litigation (see Judiciary Law § 753[A][3]). Civil contempt must be
proven by clear and convincing evidence (El-Dehdan v El-Dehdan, 26 NY3d 19, 29 [2015]). The Court of Appeals has described the elements necessary to support a finding of civil contempt as follows:
First, it must be determined that a lawful order of the
court, clearly expressing an unequivocal mandate, was in effect. Second,
it must appear, with reasonable certainty, that the order has been
disobeyed. Third, the party to be held in contempt must have had
knowledge of the court's order, although it is not necessary that the
order actually have been served upon the party. Fourth, prejudice to the
right of a party to the litigation must be demonstrated.
(id. [internal quotes and citations omitted]). "A motion to
punish a party for civil contempt is addressed to the sound discretion
of the court" (Bauman v Bauman, 208 AD3d 624, 626
[2d Dept 2022]). "A hearing is not mandated in every instance where
contempt is sought; it need only be conducted if a factual dispute
exists which cannot be resolved on the papers alone" (Jaffe v Jaffe, 44 AD3d 825, 826
[2d Dept 2007]). "Generally, a court may, in its discretion, grant
relief that is warranted by the facts plainly appearing on the papers on
both sides, if the relief granted is not too dramatically unlike the
relief sought, the proof offered supports it, and there is no prejudice
to any party" (Caro v Marsh USA, Inc., 101 AD3d 1068, [2d Dept 2012]).
The first element stipulated by the Court of Appeals is satisfied
here because the temporary order of visitation, and continued orders,
were clear and unequivocal. Petitioner's assertion to the contrary is
incorrect (Hazelwood affirmation ¶ 17-19). Not only is the written
language of the order clear, but Referee Brenes reiterated at both the
May 16, 2022 and June 13, 2022 conferences that Respondent was to have
parenting time with the children and stated that the order of protection
is subject to the temporary order of visitation. At the May 16, 2022
conference she also denied Petitioner's May 16, 2022 request that the
parenting time be supervised. Her instructions, both on the record and
in the written order, were clear and unequivocal. Therefore, this
element is satisfied.
Second, the order was disobeyed. Petitioner attests in her affidavit
that she intentionally did not send the children for the court-ordered
parenting time with Respondent (S.S. affidavit in opposition ¶ 5 ["On
May 20, 2022, I still had not received an order from the court, and I
did not send the children for visitation."; ¶ 7 ["On July 1, 2022, I did
not send the children for visit with Mr. [S.] because the children's
attorney had not yet spoken with the children to address the children's
concerns."]). Assuming arguendo that the court excuses
Petitioner's failure to produce the children for the weekend of May 20,
2022 and subsequent weekends when the criminal order of protection
restricted Respondent's access to the children, the order was
nevertheless violated on the weekends of June 24, 2022, July 1, 2022,
and July 8, 2022. It is undisputed that Petitioner failed to produce the
children on these dates, which prevented Respondent from exercising his
court ordered parenting time. Petitioner's contention that Respondent
must demonstrate that she "has failed to make good faith attempts to
comply with the court's order" is unavailing because no such showing is
required under New York law (see El-Dehdan, 26 NY3d at 36
["Wilfulness is not an element of civil contempt ... civil contempt is
established, regardless of the contemnor's motive, when disobedience of
the court's order "defeats, impairs, impedes, or prejudices the rights
or remedies of a party"]).
Moreover, Petitioner's explanations for violating the court's orders
are contrary to the record and, even if accepted as true, do not excuse
her failure to comply with the clear order of the court. Respondent did
not raise any safety concerns at either the May 16, 2022 or June 13,
2022 conference with Referee Brenes, where the attorney for the children
consistently reported, at each court appearance, that the children love
their father and want to spend time with him. Additionally, Petitioner
was appointed counsel on June 14, 2022, and was always represented by
counsel thereafter. Therefore, she had the necessary counsel and
resources to petition the court to suspend visitation if appropriate but
did not do so. Instead, Petitioner opted to substitute her own judgment
for that of the court, which had clearly directed, on two separate
occasions, that Respondent was to have parenting time with the children
every weekend. Therefore, the second element necessary for a finding of
contempt is satisfied.
Petitioner was also aware of the court's orders. She attended each
court conference where the orders were issued and, except the May 16,
2022 order, she was in receipt of the court's orders prior to the start
of the parenting time in question. Although the court order was not
immediately disseminated to Petitioner due to a clerical error, it is
uncontroverted that Petitioner was present at the court conference
wherein the parties were directed to comply with court-ordered
visitation. Petitioner does not dispute that she was aware of the
court's orders at any time. Therefore, the third element is met.
Finally, Respondent's rights were prejudiced because he was not
permitted to exercise the court-ordered parenting time. The natural
right to visitation is a joint right of the noncustodial parent and the
child (Gottlieb v Gottlieb, 137 AD3d 614, 619
[1st Dept 2016]). "Consequently, it is presumed that parental
visitation is in the best interest of the child, absent proof that such
visitation would be harmful" (id.) By failing to produce the
children for court-ordered visitation, Petitioner prejudiced
Respondent's right to exercise parenting time with the children (see Matthew A. v Jennifer A.,
73 Misc 3d 1215(A), *16 [Sup Ct Monroe County 2021]["To suggest that a
father is not `harmed' or `prejudiced' by the willful and intentional
destruction of his negotiated joint custody rights and his right to
visit with his children is an argument that violates every principle in
New York's family law."]). Therefore, Respondent has demonstrated this
element of civil contempt.
Whereas Respondent has demonstrated all of the elements of contempt
by clear and convincing evidence, the court finds that Petitioner is in
contempt of the court for failing to comply with the courts temporary
orders of visitation dated May 16, 2022 and June 13, 2022. Having made
this determination, the court must now determine the appropriate
penalty. The purpose of any penalty imposed is not to punish but rather,
to compensate the aggrieved party and to coerce compliance with the
court's mandate (State of NY v Unique Ideas, 44 NY2d 345, 350 [1978]; Larisa F. v Michael S., 122 Misc 2d 520, 521
(Fam Ct Queens County 1984]). Respondent seeks an order of commitment,
an award of sole legal and physical custody to Respondent, that
Petitioner's parenting time be limited to supervised visitation only,
and for such other and further relief as the court deems just and
proper.
With respect to the request for supervised visitation, Respondent did
not raise any safety concerns on this motion regarding Petitioner's
parenting that warrants limiting her parenting time to supervised
visitation only. Additionally, although some courts have suggested that a
change in custody may result from a finding of contempt under certain
circumstances (see Heintz v Heintz, 28 AD3d 1154,
[4th Dept 2006), this is strongly the minority position and is not an
appropriate result here. Respondent withdrew his custody petition on
March 29, 2022 after Petitioner filed her own motion for contempt and
does not currently have a custody petition pending before this court. If
Respondent wishes to seek an order of custody, he may do so by
following the proper procedure.
Finally, the court must consider Respondent's request for an order of
commitment. The violations in question here took place over a period of
eight weekends and Petitioner has complied with the temporary order of
visitation since that time. Therefore, an order of commitment, which is
designed to compel compliance with the court's orders, would serve no
purpose at this time (see Rubin v Rubin, 78 AD3d 812, 813
[2d Dept 2010]). Respondent should instead be compensated for what was
lost—namely, valuable bonding time with the children. Therefore, it is
the order of the court that Respondent shall have, in addition to the
weekend parenting schedule currently in place, makeup overnight
parenting time on the following school holidays: November 11, 2022,
November 24, 2022, November 25, 2022, December 26, 2022 through January
2, 2023, January 16, 2023, February 20, 2023 through February 24, 2023,
April 6, 2022, and April 7, 2022. The pickup and drop off schedule for
these visits shall be as follows:
November 10, 2022 at 5:00 p.m. through November 13, 2022 at 6:00 p.m.
November 23, 2022 at 5:00 p.m. through November 27, 2022 at 6:00 p.m.
December 23, 2022 at 5:00 p.m. through January 2, 2023 at 6:00 p.m.
January 12, 2023 at 5:00 p.m. through January 16, 2023 at 6:00 p.m.
February 17, 2023 at 5:00 p.m. through February 26, 2022 at 6:00 p.m.
April 5, 2023 at 5:00 p.m. through April 9, 2023 at 6:00 p.m.
Any failure on the part of Petitioner to produce the children to
Respondent on these dates, absent just cause, shall result in further
findings of contempt punishable by an order of commitment."