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Thursday, January 14, 2021

DRUG ADDICTION AND PARENTING


Matter of D.J., NYLJ January 04, 2021, Date filed: 2020-09-30, Court: Family Court, Bronx, Judge: Judge Ronna Gordon-Galchus, Case Number: NN-06164-65/20 (italics supplied):

"....In the case at bar, the extensive documentary evidence, coupled with the in-court testimony requires continued removal of the subject children, as they would be at “imminent risk” if returned to RM’s care. RM has a long, protracted history with child protection services in Florida, an extensive history of using flakka and cocaine, and her two older, though very young, children have been adopted by her mother who resides in Florida. RM tested positive for cocaine and marijuana, as did SC F.J. at the time of her birth in February of 2020 and RM admitted using cocaine during her pregnancy with F.J. during her testimony. The child D.J. is 16 months old and F.J. is 7 months old, and thus particularly vulnerable.

In evaluating and assessing RM’s testimony, it is apparent that she yearns to have her children return to her care. However, she lacks insight as to the level of care, monitoring, and long-term planning required to address her drug addiction. Although she submitted to drug testing through her out-patient program, such testing was not random, as she knew what days screenings would occur. A review of the lab results submitted by Respondent as Exhibit C show that the screening was done nearly exclusively on Tuesdays and Thursdays. It was not until a time in August 2020 that she began to comply with random testing by the Agency. The evidence shows that she failed to submit to testing by the Agency for the entire month of July as well as August 11 and 13. Her reasons for not being compliant, such as she may have been out of town, had doctor appointments or school were not persuasive and were self-serving. Her testimony that she went to Atlantic City to celebrate her birthday with RF and therefore was not available for screening demonstrates an example of her failed insight and ability to fully appreciate her addiction. Although “laudable” that she completed the outpatient program at Samaritan Village, “that participation does not successfully overcome her prior inclinations and behavior patterns, despite what may be the best intentions.” In re Kimberly H., 242 A.D.2d 35, 39 (1st Dept. 1998); Matter of Nyasia J. v. Francesca J., 41 A.D.3d 478, 479 (2nd Dept., 2007). The Florida child protective history documents are alarming. RM abandoned her older children for periods of time without communication as to her whereabouts. The entries state RM “has a history of leaving the children for long periods. Every time the mother leaves, she gives different explanations.” She required hospitalization when she was six months pregnant with her second child for testing positive for cocaine. This also discredits her affidavit which states: “F.J. was my 10th pregnancy. Right before D.J. I had two miscarriages. I did not use any drugs during the pregnancies of any of my other kids.” When trying to explain this inconsistency, she stated that she “figured my two older kids aren’t part of this case. That’s why I put that in the affidavit.” During her testimony, she referred to the positive toxicology in February of 2020 as a “hiccup,” and her reason for using cocaine in January and February of 2020 was a source of self — medication since she was in pain during her pregnancy. She denied using drugs past 2016, but had a positive test for cocaine in January 2017, as reflected in the reports from Florida. RM’s 2018 psychiatric evaluation reports that “she claims to be sober since April 2017.” RM was in two prior inpatient drug rehabilitation programs in Florida during 2016, 2017 and 2018. She testified that she was court-ordered by “her criminal judge” and thus did not enter of her own volition. Her affidavit specifically states that she was told to either go into an inpatient program or face criminal charges. Although the evidence indicates she was recommended for an inpatient program during her CASAC evaluation, she denied that. She states in her affidavit, “I did not need inpatient.”

This Court had ordered that RF and RM visit the children separately. However, there were times when the two visited the children together. Case planner O. states in her affidavit that when RF was told the visit had to be separate, he replied, “No. We are not doing that.” Although reasons offered for this violation of the court order were that they shared one car, RM also testified that the car is in her mother’s name and belongs to her. Caseplanner O testified that case planner C notified her that during a visit he smelled marijuana emanating from the car and RF D.J.’s “eyes seemed bloodshot.” RF has not complied with agency’s referrals and most recently tested positive for marijuana on July 27 and marijuana and cocaine on August 6, 2020. RF denied using cocaine when he testified on September 14th. Both RM and RF testified that RF travels often and now resides most of the time in Connecticut. However, both he and RM are the lease holders of their current residence, a lease which RM stated expires on September 29, 2020. Both left Florida in 2019 and came together to New York. The child protective documents from Florida state that RM was not interested in reunifying with her older children by moving into her mother’s home where the children lived. Rather, when she was discharged from the halfway house in June of 2018 and “chose to move in with her boyfriend rather than moving in with the MGM.” RM was reported as saying, “I do not want to choose between my children and the man I am about to marry.” At the hearing she denied making that statement and testified. “No, I never told them that. Not to my knowledge.” She testified that she and her older daughter A (not a subject child) visited RF at a halfway house and that he had recently been released from jail, but stated that she could not recall why he had been in jail. RF testified that he was at the halfway house because he violated his probation, and that he was on probation for delivery of cocaine which he admitted was selling cocaine. This Court does not credit RM’s testimony that she could not recall this information. She also denied telling Florida authorities that RF was a drug user, though the Florida documents state, “she reported that her boyfriend whom they call ‘D.J’ is also a drug user.” This Court does not credit RM’s testimony that she cannot recall this information about RF. Though not legally married, both RF and RM refer to each other as husband and wife. RM introduced an August 2018 Florida Court order (Exhibit H) to show that she had unsupervised visits with her older children and there was no prohibition about having RF present. However, the Florida child protective documents include entries that RM was told by the judge that her boyfriend (RF) was not to be present during visits. RM denied this. A new abuse case was called in October 2018 because RM took her daughter, A, to the halfway house to visit RF. A disclosed to her teacher that while she was at her mother’s boyfriend’s home, her mother told her to “put the pillow over my head so I couldn’t see anything.” It should also be noted that Exhibit H has a handwritten entry which states, “the caregiver does not believe the mother has gained insight,” and that the “caregiver believes mother has deserted the family.”

In the past RM has been prescribed various psychotropic medication such as Seroquel, Lexapro, Zoloft, Wellbutrin, and Prozac. She had a psychiatric evaluation in October 2018 where it was reported that RM had a history of being diagnosed with depression, anxiety, and PTSD. It was recommended that she see a psychiatrist monthly to monitor her mood and determine her need for medication. RM did not recall having this evaluation. The report also indicates that RM stated, “I was on medications. I stopped them last April. I do not want to be on meds. I want to see if I can handle it on my own. My depression comes and goes.” In evidence as Respondent’s A is a letter dated August 12, 2020 from RM’s therapist Luiz Lopez. Mr. Lopez did not testify. His letter states that RM had an initial intake appointment with him on June 24, 2020 and attended four sessions and requested that two be rescheduled. The letter indicated that he discusses coping skills and managing stress. She is engaged and asks questions. No other details were provided. This letter was extremely limited in nature. When questioned about taking medication, RM testified:” Me, personally, I don’t believe in medication and I don’t want to take no type of medication.” She also testified that when her therapist asked if she wanted to be referred to a “psych doctor” because I let him know how I’m always in my head” she told him “I don’t need so (sic) psych doctor.” When questioned about her therapy and asked how long she will continue with therapy, she stated, “I am going to do that for a while. I mean, not a long period, but I’m going to continue with it.”

Although the attorney for the child now supports the 1028 application, she had opposed overnight visitation a few months ago and requested that the ICPC process begin so the children can reside with the maternal grandmother in Florida.

The agency’s concerns that RM’s ability to enforce an order preventing RF from being present is only one consideration in this matter. RM’s long standing drug addiction, her failure to address her true needs and the reason for the removal, as well as her failure to report for random tests puts the children at imminent risk. See Matter of Audrey L., 147 A.D.3d 838 (2nd Dept. 2017). RM’s compliance in attending a short outpatient program and her limited engagement in therapy does not negate imminent risk. Her testimony clearly indicates that she wants to dictate the course of services as opposed to getting what she needs for long term recovery. When confronted with questions which are uncomfortable, she denies or does not recall. When RM’s attorney asked if she was willing to participate in additional referrals if asked by ACS, her initial response was, “I mean if I have to. I mean if it’s — yes. I’ll say yes. Yes.” This response also reflects RM’s reluctance at this time. RM often attempted to make excuses for herself and her response to answers were indicative that she lacks insight to the severity of her addiction. Her denial or lack of knowledge of RF’s behavior, her belief that he will not violate any court orders, and her statement in 2018 statement about having to choose between RF and her children further emphasize her inability to be ready to care for her children.

Unlike the situation in In re Gavin S., 52 Misc. 3d 1221(a) (Kings County Family Court 2016), which counsel for respondent referred to in summation, RM in the case at bar lacks “insight” into her “treatment needs.” Similarly, counsel’s reliance on Matter of David G., 29 Misc.3d 1178, 1186 (Kings Family Court 2010) and Matter of Baby Boy D., 127 A.D.3d 1079 (2nd Dept. 2015) is not comparable, as removal in the instant case is not “based on assumptions, guesswork and unsupported predictions of future behavior” but rather after assessing the documentary and testimonial evidence including RM’s credibility, behavior and lack of insight.

The road to recovery and rehabilitation is a long journey. RM has begun that process. It is paramount that she continues to take steps forward, toward the goal of reunification. She has struggled and continues to struggle with her drug addiction. Each relapse and reluctance to participate in a full scope of services and monitoring is a step backwards. This Court does not believe that RM has the current protective capacity to care for F.J. and D.J.. RM must be open to participate in intensive drug counseling, a mental health evaluation which includes any recommendations for medication management, and long-term therapy to address her drug and mental health issues. However, in order to be successful, she must participate in these services because she wants to, not because of an order. She left Florida and came to New York, but now wishes to return to Florida. Her own stability must be addressed before she can care for her own children. F.J. and D.J. are infants and do not have the protective capacity to ensure their own safety in their mother’s care. See Matter of Novelise M., 54 Misc.3d 1202(A) (Bronx Family Court, 2016). RM has made some steps on the road to reunification, but this journey is very much still in process.

This Court finds that continued removal of the children from RM is necessary to avoid imminent risk to their life or health. This decision is made after a thorough evaluation of the documentary and testimonial evidence and counsels’ arguments. At this time, orders cannot be put in place to mitigate that risk. However, the Court does take notice both of RM’s engagement with some services, her recent compliance with random testing, and the importance of the bonding process which is critical for these very young children. Therefore, some sandwich unsupervised community visits will be permitted under the following conditions."



Wednesday, May 13, 2020

PARENTING TIME AND EARLY RECOVERY


There is a saying - you have to give "time" time. But at least here the supervised visitation is at the parent's home with the parent's family. And to the parent in this matter: it is pretty much an axiom in recovery, especially from opioid addiction, to stay away from all intoxicants.

Matter of Curtis D. v Samantha E., 2020 NY Slip Op 02137, Decided on April 2, 2020, Appellate Division, Third Department:

"Generally, the party seeking modification of a prior order of custody and/or visitation must first
The evidence at the fact-finding hearing established that the father has a long history of opioid addiction. Following the child's birth in 2015, the parties initially resided together; however, in May 2016, Child Protective Services issued an indicated report against the father for inadequate guardianship after the mother reported finding a bag of heroin on the floor near where the child played.[FN2] The parties' relationship ended the following month and, shortly thereafter, the father was convicted of criminal possession of a controlled substance. In May or June 2017, the father was also convicted of criminal contempt and sentenced to three years of probation after he violated an order of protection in favor of the mother. To the father's credit, in November 2017, he completed a 19-day inpatient treatment program and thereafter followed through with a regimen of intensive outpatient treatment. In March 2018, however, he was arrested for driving while intoxicated after he had a "couple of beers" with a friend and drove his vehicle off the road; he was later convicted of driving while ability impaired. Despite this setback, the father completed outpatient treatment in June 2018 and, since the commencement of his 2017 probation, he has consistently tested negative for drug use. The father has also maintained full-time employment as a subcontractor and resides with his parents and his 16-year-old son from a prior relationship, of whom he has full custody. Further, from February 2017 to February 2018, with the mother's consent, he regularly exercised supervised visitation with the child on alternating weekends and one weekday each week at his parents' home, and the paternal grandfather and the father's sister both testified that, having supervised such visitation, they perceive no safety concerns with his visitation with the child.

Despite the father's laudable treatment gains, however, his sobriety is a relatively new development. He continues to be medically assisted in treatment via a twice daily regimen of Suboxone and, per his own self-assessment, it is "an everyday fight to stay away from [his] addiction." The father's testimony further revealed that he tends to minimize his conduct and deflect blame for his poor decision-making. On the record before us, therefore, and according deference to Family Court's fact-finding and credibility assessments, we find that there is a sound and substantial basis in the record supporting Family Court's determination to award the father supervised visitation (see Matter of Carrie ZZ. v Aaron YY., 178 AD3d 1291, 1292-1293 [2019]; Matter of Williams v Patinka, 144 AD3d 1432, 1433 [2016]; compare Matter of Spoor v Carney, 149 AD3d 1209, 1210-1211 [2017])."



Thursday, April 16, 2020

RECOVERY FROM DRUGS AND CHILD CUSTODY/VISITATION


"It’s no secret that drug use is looked down on by society. The War on Drugs has created a negative and stigmatizing environment for those who struggle with addiction. Can the stigma that surrounds people with addiction cause them to experience discrimination by society? No doubt about it. In fact, this form of discrimination is so powerful and prevalent that minority drug users have reported drug use discrimination as the most common and influential discrimination that they face. While much of society is sensitive to discrimination based on race and ethnicity, we have yet to become aware of the issue of addiction." - Prejudice and Discrimination are Obstacles to Recovery Posted on March 31, 2017 by IRETA

MATTER OF JESSICA D. v. Michael E., 2020 NY Slip Op 2133 - NY: Appellate Div., 3rd Dept. April 2, 2020:

Petitioner (hereinafter the mother) and respondent (hereinafter the father) are the parents of a child (born in 2007).[1] Under a 2008 order, the father has sole legal and physical custody of the child. The 2008 order also provided that the mother's visitation with the child would be suspended pending an application to reconsider such order. In 2016, the mother commenced this modification proceeding seeking visitation with the child. Particularly, the mother alleged that she wanted to establish a relationship with the child and to see him so that she could let him know that she had made mistakes in the past. In March 2018, a hearing was held wherein the mother was the only witness to testify and the report of a court-appointed forensic evaluator was admitted into evidence. Following the hearing, Family Court found that the requested visitation would not be in the best interests of the child and dismissed the mother's petition. The mother appeals.

The mother satisfied her threshold burden of establishing a change in circumstances since the entry of the 2008 order so as to warrant an examination of the best interests of the child. Family Court found, and the record confirms, that the mother had made significant improvements in her life since the 2008 order by acquiring stable housing and employment and no longer abusing drugs. Accordingly, the court's finding that a change in circumstances existed will not be disturbed (see Matter of Sweeney v Daub-Stearns, 166 AD3d 1340, 1342 [2018]).

We do not, however, reach the same conclusion regarding Family Court's determination to deny the mother any visitation with the child. "[V]isitation with a noncustodial parent is presumed to be in a child's best interests" (Matter of Heather SS. v Ronald SS., 173 AD3d 1271, 1272 [2019] [internal quotation marks and citations omitted]; accord Matter of Richard GG. v M. Carolyn GG., 169 AD3d 1169, 1171 [2019]; Matter of Boisvenue v Gamboa, 166 AD3d 1411, 1413 [2018]). The denial of visitation to a noncustodial parent is a drastic remedy that may be ordered only if compelling reasons and substantial evidence exist showing that visitation would be detrimental to the child's welfare (see Matter of Richard GG. v M. Carolyn GG., 169 AD3d at 1171; Matter of Perry v Leblanc, 158 AD3d 1025, 1027 [2018]; Matter of Attorney for the Children v Barbara N., 152 AD3d 903, 904 [2017]). Although Family Court's findings are generally accorded great deference, they must be set aside when they are not supported by a sound and substantial basis in the record (see Matter of Ahmad v Naviwala, 306 AD2d 588, 590-591 [2003], lv dismissed 100 NY2d 615 [2003]; Matter of Gitchell v Gitchell, 165 AD2d 890, 893 [1990]).

The mother testified at the hearing that she had not seen the child in nine years due to her abuse of drugs. In that time, however, the mother recognized that she had problems and took steps to address them. The mother testified that she has a big apartment, made efforts to reach out to the child, regained custody of some of her other children and, as mentioned, was employed and had stopped using drugs for at least three years.

Notwithstanding the foregoing, Family Court gave undue weight to the report prepared by the forensic evaluator. We note that the recommendation of an appointed forensic evaluator is one factor that a court must consider in its analysis of the best interests of the child (see Matter of Morrow v Morrow, 2 AD3d 1225, 1226 [2003]). It is not, however, determinative (see Matter of Donald G. v Hope H., 160 AD3d 1061, 1062 [2018]). The forensic evaluator acknowledged the progress that the mother had made in her life — namely, her sobriety, the return of her other children and her maintaining stable employment. Yet, the forensic evaluator cited those same improvements as a basis for finding that the mother's life was chaotic and that she was not equipped, at that time, to add anything positive to the child's life. Sanctioning this rationale would essentially give no incentive to any parent to achieve stability in his or her life. Moreover, the forensic evaluator was cognizant that the father was a significant source of the child's antipathy towards the mother. The forensic evaluator further noted that there would likely be no movement towards reuniting the mother and the child based upon, in part, the father's indication that he would not comply with any visitation ordered by the court. In our view, the forensic evaluator essentially acquiesced to the father's preferences that the child have no contact with the mother and, in effect, gave them a higher priority over any court directive. Any unwillingness by the father to facilitate visitation does not demonstrate that the child's welfare would be placed in harm if visitation between the mother and the child occurred and in no way rebuts the presumption that visitation with the mother is in the best interests of the child. In view of the flaws in the forensic evaluator's report, it should have been given minimal consideration.
Family Court also found that the mother could not control her emotions during the trial. Although we do not discount a parent's emotional stability as one factor in the best interests analysis, there was little evidence, if any, indicating that the mother displayed the same emotional outbursts either with the children that she had just regained custody of or outside the courtroom setting. Accordingly, under the circumstances of this case, any inability of the mother to control her emotions at the hearing has little relevance (see Matter of Gonzalez v Ross, 140 AD3d 869, 871 [2016]). Furthermore, to the extent that the court relied on the forensic evaluator's opinion that the mother was emotionally labile, such opinion likewise has marginal value for reasons already mentioned.

Based on the foregoing, we find that Family Court's determination lacked a sound and substantial basis in the record (see Matter of Boisvenue v Gamboa, 166 AD3d at 1413; Matter of Laware v Baldwin, 42 AD3d 696, 697 [2007]; Matter of Strempler v Savell, 287 AD2d 827, 828 [2001]). Although our authority is as broad as that of Family Court, in view of the significant lapse of time since the hearing and the order appealed from, the prudent course would be to remit the matter for additional fact-finding and a determination on visitation (see Matter of Shirreece AA. v Matthew BB., 166 AD3d 1419, 1425 [2018]; Matter of Staff v Gelunas, 143 AD3d 1077, 1080 [2016]). Upon remittal, the court should consider whether directing the parties, including the child, to undergo counseling under the court's guidance with the goal of advancing to some form of visitation between the mother and the child (see Matter of Brown v Erbstoesser, 85 AD3d 1497, 1500 [2011]; Zoldan v Resnick, 134 AD2d 246, 246 [1987]) or whether ordering therapeutic visitation (see Matter of Heather NN. v Vinnette OO., 180 AD3d 57, 64-66 [2019]) would be in the best interests of the child. To that end, the court should also solicit the recommendation of a different forensic evaluator to aid in its ultimate determination. Based on our determination, the mother's remaining contentions are academic.


[1] The mother also has other children from separate relationships.